Stop blaming or complaining about others to escape from your own responsibility and duty as a human being. Since childhood, people often teach or encourage children—directly or indirectly—how to silently hide behind pretense and pseudo-persuasion, or how to escape accountability by defaming or complaining about others through speech or visual presentation.What you show through your actions, both physically and mentally, by pretending and pleading for false persuasion, is silently absorbed by children without anyone’s permission. Gradually, this faulty behavior transforms into a permanent habit that shapes the character of a child’s mind. Instead of building an honest person, it produces a critical personality full of unhealthy conspiracies.Often, human beings fall into the habit of blaming and complaining in order to escape responsibility for the sake of momentary happiness or comfort, or to gain false public approval.
Since the first breath, a child is clay,Soft and silent, watching the playOf words and gestures in the home,The seeds of thought that inward roam.But what do we sow in tender ground?Not truth, not courage, firm and sound—We teach, through whispers veiled in ease,The art of hiding behind disease:The pretense of virtue, the cunning disguise,The subtle complaint, the wounded cries.A child absorbs without a gate,The silent lessons of love—or hate.Not taught by scriptures, scroll, or creed,But by each action, word, and deed.And so the habit takes its form:To shift the weight, to flee the storm.To blame another, to point, defame,To cloak one’s duty in another’s shame.Thus grows a mind not clear, but sly,Seeking approval with a practiced lie.A spirit trapped in shallow schemes,Living on shadows, feeding on dreams.Yet O human soul, awake, arise!No truth is born from borrowed lies.Your task, your dharma, none can bear,But you—alone—must choose to care.Stop blaming others to soothe your fear,Stop weaving excuses year by year.Responsibility is the flame within,The sacred fire that cleanses sin.True peace is not in false acclaim,Nor in complaint, nor shifting blame.It lives in silence, pure and bright,In honest action, aligned with light.Be the example, O wandering mind,Leave no shadowed trace behind.For children watch, and souls perceive,The truth you live is what you leave.
Breaking the Cycle of Blame: Nurturing Accountability Over Pretense